Reminder: Everything in this text is my opinion, it doesn't mean you have to agree with me.
According to the cabbage text, the question is... do you wait to rot or change gardens?
I'm talking about myself here, a lifelong cabbage, of course sometimes a cabbage-user too, but a top-notch cabbage. Top-notch? What would that be? The most appropriate word for the number 10 is sucker! Yes... that's how I feel now, or rather, I always was, but you know how it is, "we cover the sun with a sieve," but that's okay!!! Is there such a thing as an ex-cabbage??? Hmm... since I'm still a cabbage, I don't know the answer, hehehe. But who knows, maybe one day I'll have an answer to this question!
What makes a person a cabbage? What's so interesting about a cabbage-user? There are several answers to these questions. My answer... let's leave it at that! And my cabbage-user... let's leave that too! Will I wait to rot??? Or will a new garden appear??? Only time will tell, because this cabbage here, ugh... never knows what it wants, and in the meantime... it keeps on being a cabbage! (12/04/07)
The next day... (04/13/07)
Oops... I didn't know I'd get the answers so quickly. I have answers to some of the above unanswered questions.
1. Remember that the whole cabbage and cabbage-user thing happens in "unbalanced romantic relationships."
2. There are ex-cabbages, but once a cabbage, always a cabbage. Sad, isn't it? But it's reality, better to face the facts.
3. I didn't wait to rot, oops... they didn't wait for me to rot!!! But the fact is, I didn't rot... we (my ex-cabbage-user and I) are fresh (oops... I forgot, he's a cabbage-user, was he a cabbage? He must have been at least once, and as I said before, once a cabbage, always a cabbage) and we'll go through many gardens.
4. New garden? The world is full of gardens, now just choose a really good cabbage, hahaha! Is this cabbage from Goiás? I don't know!!! But I affirm here, a good cabbage is a carioca (from Rio de Janeiro), oh!!! lol
5. The cabbage is the main dish, yes, not always, but it's the main dish of the day or night, I don't know! lol
6. There's a difference between a deceived cabbage and a conscious cabbage. I was a conscious cabbage, I knew the "fairy tale" would end, so the "princess-cabbage" enjoyed every moment with her "prince charming-cabbage-user." But there's no happy ending in this story, just a less bad one, after all, it could have been worse. In my case, everything was peaceful, especially since the ex-cabbage-user remains special.
7. Ah! When the cabbage is conscious... no one uses anyone, it's the so-called "I use you and you use me." Both parties knew that one day it would all end!
8. Now everyone decides what they want to be from today onwards... cabbage, cabbage-user, or nothing at all, hehehe! I... don't want to be any of the three. I want a balanced romantic relationship, so there will be no cabbage or cabbage-user, just two people with the same goal... happiness for both! Now the question is? Is it too much of a dream???? I don't know... but I keep trying. "How fantastic it is to think, how fascinating it is to exist, how spectacular it is to have emotions, even painful ones." Never give up on your dreams!
